Coach Bowler
Mike Bowler was a devoted teacher, club advisor, administrator and coach at RPHS. He made a lasting impression on the students, athletes and residents of Rocky Point who had the pleasure of crossing his path during his more than 40 years of service. Our annual Mike Bowler Day honors the life and legacy of Coach Bowler and his dedication to the boy’s lacrosse program at Rocky Point High School.
Since 1973, he consistently worked to make this school and community into a better place. Bowler established the lacrosse team from a collection of younger boys that learned how to play through intramurals to finally establishing a varsity team in 1978, which boasted a winning season in its first year.
As the “father of Rocky Point lacrosse,” Bowler meticulously prepared his teams through all of his practices, games, and summer league contests.
When his players graduated from Rocky Point, it was often the case that Bowler traveled to see them play at the college level.
The connection of families to the Rocky Point lacrosse team runs deep, as brothers often played together and fathers watched their kids play on the same team that they once played for under Bowler.
Always a positive figure, Bowler could be seen smiling, wearing his Rocky Point hat, shirt, and salmon shorts, especially during the 2008 pursuit to win the New York State Championship in lacrosse. Coach was an important role model to many of his students, athletes, and other coaches. He always provided much needed support and advice to anyone who needed it. In 2020 in he was selected as the US Lacrosse Coach of the Year, and a plaque was dedicated to him here in the halls of Rocky Point High School.
Thank you to Mrs. Bowler and her children for allowing this community the outstanding opportunity to have known this great man who was loyal to the communities of Miller Place, Rocky Point, and Sound Beach. Since the early 1970’s, this program was fortunate to have his guidance and leadership, and the memory of Coach Bowler will always drive this team to succeed each day on and off the field.
“He wasn’t just a coach,” said former player Eddie Torriero, 26, of Houston. “I’m a lacrosse coach now full-time and I try to make sure that my kids know that if they need something, they can call me. He always gave his number out and said, ‘If you need a ride, call me. If you need something, give me a call.’ There should be no hesitation to call Coach B if you needed something.”
John Fernandez
West Point Lacrosse Captain & Army First Lieutenant
“He treated his players with respect and wanted to get the best out of them,” Fernandez said. “He loved the game and studied it to be the best possible coach.”
Joe Spallina
Stony Brook Women's Lacrosse Coach
“He is the sole reason that I got into coaching,” said former player and current Stony Brook University women’s lacrosse coach Joe Spallina. "He showed an ability to connect with all different types of people and to get the best out of people. The style that he did it with is remarkable. He had a way of connecting with the best guy on the team or the kid who’s not getting the most amount of playing time.”
Mike Muller
2008 Rocky Point Lacrosse State Champion & Dartmouth Alum
According to Muller, “The world needs more people like Mike Bowler. He changed the course of my life and countless others for the better. His legacy will live on forever.”
Justin Reh
2014 Suffolk County Champion & MLL/PLL Lacrosse Player
Justin saw Bowler as one of the “greatest people that he had ever known” and that this long-time coach always stressed the need for his players to be “respectful, carry yourself in a positive manner and to be productive citizens.”
Charles Delargy
Former Director of Health, Physical Education & Athletics at Rocky Point HS
Generations of players benefited from Coach Bowler's leadership, knowledge of the game and commitment to his student-athletes. It was a great honor working with him as a coach and conversing with him as a friend,” said Mr. Charles M. Delargy
Peter LaSalla
1982 Graduate and Member of One of Bowler's First Teams
“As a player of his and then watching as a fan as he coached two of my sons, he never lost the passion or dedication that he had for not only his teams, but all of the kids coming up,” said Peter LaSalla, a 1982 Rocky Point graduate. “He is missed greatly.”